Are you ready to revolutionize your relationship with yourself and transform your love and sex life?

Vulnerability is courage.  It fosters connection, intimacy, and creativity.

Developing a compassionate relationship with oneself is the gateway to meaningfully connected relationships with others.

Most of us are given poor relationship education. Often we don't know how to love well.

I believe we can all learn to communicate and love better. 

Hello, I’m happy you’re here.

As the founder of Asatti Living, I specialize in helping men and couples create meaningful, lasting change in their relationships and within themselves. My coaching blends emotional depth with actionable tools, empowering clients to move beyond old patterns and into deeper connection, intimacy, and confidence.

Clients come to me looking for clarity, healing, and change—and they leave with a renewed sense of self, stronger partnerships, and the tools to communicate, love, and connect more authentically. Whether it's navigating relationship conflicts, reigniting intimacy, or exploring desires and boundaries, my work creates real, sustainable transformation.

I hold certifications from both the Somatica Institute as a trained Sex & Relationship Coach and Level One Couples Therapy with the Gottman Method, bringing both heart and science into every session. My method is collaborative, trauma-aware, and grounded in compassion. I create a non-judgmental space where difficult conversations feel safe and liberating.

Together, we’ll address what’s been holding you back: unresolved wounds, generational patterns, attachment dynamics, and intimacy blocks. And from there, we build. The result? Greater self-love, deeper trust, empowered communication, and the kind of intimacy that feels both safe and exciting.

At Asatti Living, we believe that relationship work is soul work. And when done with care, it can change everything.

 



Relationship coach, Charlette Bevers, is dressed in black, walking away from the camera in an open field and looks back

What I offer as a Sex and Relationship Coach:

  • My work is deeply rooted in the evidence-based Gottman Method Couples Therapy and the Somatica Institute to help clients break patterns of disconnection to deepen intimacy.

  • Secure Attachment and greater self-expression in relationships

  • Relationship Repair-Concentrating on challenging moments of tension, and conflict and working to dialogue about them as a catalyst for deeper intimacy and trust

  • Reducing shame-and understanding of how shame limits our life-force and self-expresssion

  • Addressing difficulties around sexless relationships, low libido, sexual dysfunction and sexual compatibility. Guiding clients to fully understand their sexuality and sexual potential through awareness, embodiment, and communication.

  • Learning embodied connection to emotions and sexuality

  • Developing the ability to advocate for yourself in getting your desires met and keeping your boundaries out in the world

  • Developing a broad definition of sex and what it can offer us, attachment, arousal, excitement, freedom, meeting core needs, healing from core wounds, fulfilling missing experiences

  • Safer space to allow clients to express true vulnerability without judgment

  • Navigate fear, disappointment, abandonment, attachments, loss and rejection with resiliency

  • Create and Nurture connection with oneself and partners

  • Feeling empowered to choose whatever type of relationship structure you want to be in ( monogamous, poly, open, ect.) and feeling confident in who you are as a sexual being ( gay, straight, lesbian, bi, queer) and as a gendered being(trans, male, female, non-binary).

  • Getting real-time practice in relationships and relating

 

“CONNECTION IS WHY WE’RE HERE. WE ARE HARDWIRED TO CONNECT WITH OTHERS, IT’S WHAT GIVES PURPOSE AND MEANING TO OUR LIVES.”

— Brene Brown

You can have a fun, fulfilling, and vibrant partnership
that brings out the best in both of you.

That’s what working with a world-class
relationship coach can do.

Book a free consultation!